My Saggy Boobs Were Not the Problem

My Saggy Boobs Were Not the Problem

I have saggy boobs. (5 kids will do that!) They literally look like a pair of deflated balloons. The skin is all shriveled and everything. I compare them to prunes. They are definitely not my best feature. 

It used to bother me a lot. A whole lot. I seriously considered getting a breast lift. I went to see a plastic surgeon for a consult and everything. During that point in my life, I was pretty miserable. My marriage was on life-support, and my self-esteem was even saggier than my boobs! I was desperate to feel better. 

As I was going through this crisis, I had a moment of clarity. I realized my saggy boobs were not the problem. My life was the problem. I had reached the point of failure in my life. I couldn't do it anymore. I felt desperate. I wanted to feel better and was looking for a quick fix. I felt crushed and caged and I reached a point where I knew if I didn't get out of my situation, I would lose myself. I needed to face my reality and make a choice. It was the hardest decision of my life and reaching it took every last bit of strength I had at the time.

I chose divorce...not the boob job. I make it sound simple, but it wasn’t. It was a struggle that tore me up inside.

It was the right decision.

Today, my boobs are saggier than ever and I am happier than ever...Go Figure!

My saggy boobs don't bother me anymore. I am happy. I am loved. I am beautiful to the ones that matter and no one else actually cares about my saggy boobs because they have their own saggy parts to deal with and honestly there are much more important things to care about. 

Taking ownership of my life and responsibility for my own happiness has set me free. 

Empower yourself

Take the journey 

 

P.S...I'm not ever going to have an actual breast augmentation, but I do like my DIY boob job I recently discovered by accident! Check it out!

 

 

 

 

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